Saturday, November 14, 2009

Can You and Your Ex Get Back Together

Can You and Your Ex Get Back Together?
What Yo Need To Know If You Want To Get Back Together With Your Ex.

If you truly want to get back together with your ex, you have to do a bit of soul searching. You must be totally honest with yourself. You have to decide if you and your ex get back together it will truly make you happy, and you won't wind up down the same road that caused the breakup in the first place. It's always easy after a breakup to only think of the good times. It's important that you try to be completely objective and think of both the good and bad times.

In reality, there are a few relationships that are unworthy of saving. If you and your ex spent more time fighting than you did doing something good and fun, then perhaps you should consider moving on. If they were physically or verbally abusive, it probably wasn't a healthy relationship. If they were mentally unstable, you probably are better off without them. If the relationship overall was a good one, and they weren't abusive, and they were of sound mind, the following should help you and your ex get back together.

Pestering and pushing your ex isn't a good idea. If you try to constantly get in touch with your ex; whether its by phone, email, text message, or stalking them you're going to do more harm than good. They will see this as a sign of desperation. This could actually push them further away than bring them closer to you.

Don't argue, beg, or plead with your ex about your past relationship. It's easy when you and your mind are all alone. Your mind manifests all sorts of “wrongs” that you may have done. Even when your ex broke up with you they may have gave you reasons why. Now, you're probably beating yourself up over them. You probably wish you had never done those things. The past is the past. This is the present.

If you get it in your mind that the relationship is currently over. You can't go back in time, though you probably wish you could. Concentrate on what is going on now. The only thing worse than obsessively contacting your ex is to beg or plead with them. Make promises how you'll change, etc...This won't help you and your ex get back together at all.

If you back off, give them some time, and live your life, you'll be doing yourself a big favor in more ways than one. You'll probably become more desirable to your ex, because you're allowing them to think about you and miss you. You'll also be helping yourself to live a happier, more fulfilling life too.

2 comments:

  1. Thanks a lot for your advice guys, it helped me a lot, I went to www.saveabreakup.com and followed their step by step instructions and it worked perfectly, now me and my girlfriend are back together.

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  2. My name is Luciana, i was marred for the past 5years not problem between me and my husband, this years unfortunately my husband suddenly change against me, he does not longer gives me any attention, i was so upset cause i have never seen my husband in this mood before, so i try all i can to get him back, no way, i said i can not stand and be looking at another woman like me taking my husband away from me cause if it was not a woman that is doing it my husband can not stay a minute without not seeing me, then i go online with a spell cast called Dr Oje, i explain every thing to him, he told me what is behind every thing that makes my husband to be avoiding me, and he also ask me if i love him that much i said yes then he said OK, that i will get him back through him and i ask how, he gave me a procedures to to work with the i do every thing he ask me to do, 12.00am at night after two days my phone rang behold it was my husband number i quickly pick up the phone and i heard him begging for my forgiveness that if really i forgive him for what he has done to me he will never in his life made a mistake like that again, then i have no choice than to forgive him, really as early as 5.00AM i heard some one knocking on my door and i ask who is that it was my husband voice and i open the door he quickly go down on his knee and start begging me for forgiveness i raise his up and hug him, ever since till now we have been together with more love and respect, he love me now like never before, if you need any type of help kindly contact Dr Oje Cause he is the most powerful spell caster in all over the world, his email address is: temple.of.solution.center@gmail.com he is like a man that is been send to save the world, contact him now again on: temple.of.solution.center@gmail.com

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